Whats Love?

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"See what i want so much/ Should never hurt this bad/ never did this before, thats what the virgin said/ we've been generally warned, thats what the surgeon says/, GOD talk to me NOW this is an emergency/ and she claim she's only wit me for the currency/ you cut me deep bitch, cut me like surgery/ and i was too proud to admit that it was hurting me/ I'd never do that to you, at least purposely/ we breaking up again/ we making up again/ but we dont love no more, i guess we fuckin' then"

--Kanye West - Bittersweet


What is real love? I always thought that it was a myth. Everybody has their own definition of love and sometimes that's what messes up alot of relationships. Both partners have different perspectives of what love is. Think about it, have you ever asked a boy or girl that you've broken up with "Whats your definition of love?"

No instead we ask questions like "what kind of guy are you looking for" or "What kind of girl are you looking for" ...and stuff like "What qualities do you look for in the opposite sex"???

We ask about the physical aspect of a female or male weight, age, hair, everything else, but never..."What Is Your Definition Of Love".

Maybe that's where we've gotten it mixed up. Maybe that's where I failed, something I overlooked.

Some guys say love is how Hova said it "I Was Just F*cking Them Broads I Was Gonna Get Right Back" (Jay Z - Song Cry)

Some Girls say Love Is When "Some people want it all, but i don't want nothing at all if it aint you baby, if i aint got you baby" (If I Aint Got You - Alicia Keys)

See how love contradicts its self.....Just That Quick.

I've never understood how a MAN could think that it's OK for him to cheat, as long as he comes home to his girl/wife/woman/significant other. I wish a Male could explain that theory to me without saying: "It's hard to explain"

I guess this day and age when men and women are on television trying to "Find Love" like NY, and Tila Tequila we're all confused about what it REALLY is right?

Look at Flav, after my dude got his money and did about four seasons of that God forsaken show he went and ended up with his baby mama anyway =/

ANYWAY

....tell me something....Whats YOUR definition of LOVE?


This Is My JAM right here and basically my love life story



"Ohhh When i met you i just knew that you would take my heart and run, until you told me how you felt for me, you said im not the one, so i slowly came to see all of the things that you were made of"

TELL ME THATS NOT DEEP? LOL



P.S. THANK YOU SO MUCH TO ALL 14 PEOPLE WHO TOOK THE TIME OUT TO TYPE A COMMENT UNDER THE LAST POST (It meant alot to me, seriously)

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Love is dangerous... Love is beautiful. Love is the ability to give a person all of you with the possibility that they can throw it away. Love is being able to depend and trust another. True friendship. Most of all, love hurts. (I feel like I wrote a poem lol)

But like Dilla said "Don't sell yourself to fall in love".

LOVE::U THINK ABT IT, DREAM ABT IT, LOSE SLEEP WORRYING ABOUT IT, WHEN U CANT FIND IT U SEARCH FOR IT, AND WHEN U FIND IT U DONT KNOW WAT TO DO WITH IT, IT IS OUR SOURCE OF PLEASURE AND PAIN, BUT WE CANT PREDICT WHICH IT WILL BE ONE MOMENT TO THE NEXT, ITS A 4 LETTER WORD, EASY TO SPELL, DIFFICULT TO DEFINE AND IMPOSSIBLE TO LIVE WITHOUT...

LOL THATS MY JAM TOO...

I WISH MEN CAN ASLO EXPLAIN HOW THEY CAN CHEAT AND ALSO CLAIM THEY LOVE THERE GIRL OR WIFE..SMH

I would explain possiblites why but I don't do the cheating biz so I couldn't really tell you from experience

Why you had to get all complex on us? lol

Malcolm had it right. Love is definitely about putting yourself in vulnerable places and trusting that that receiving end will keep your heart safe. Some eat, shit, sleep shit (but not letting it consume you in a possessive overbearing way). Each day looking forward to the next with that person in it. That balance...when you can take the good with the bad with that person and still see them same. Wanting (and not being forced) to sacrifice or change if need be in order to make it work.

I'll stop there...but I can go on.

Speaking of unique definitions of love...what about Toni Braxton's song "Trippin"?

Love is when you can fart around each other and not leave the room, even if that shit is humming. Dead ass. You think I'm being funny, but you'll see.

........ummmm
thats more nasty than love there is just no way.

damn...love huh? lol iono where to start or anything..love is happiness, pain, comfort, loneliness, tears of joy, tears of disappointment, the happiest moments in your life and some of the worst. and thats just the brief description of it lol and teems hit it on the head with that toni braxton song..it describes love to a tee!!

Fine, if I must be serious, I see it as the feeling of knowing that you have someone to live for. When you know there is someone that you need and someone needs you and you would give anything in the world to maintain that feeling. It's hard to put into words, but you kinda know it when you feel it.

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